BABA 70

No, this is not Olufela Ransome-Kuti (or Fela Anikulapo-Kuti) as Abami Eda later preferred to be called. This is my own Baba 70, my personal Baba 70. This is for Olusakin ,my father and friend.

Striking a pose for 70!

For this man I have written, because he is the one who made me love reading, and then writing. As a matter of fact, I try to not let life push me so hard that I forget to celebrate every August 10th. Indeed, I consider myself lucky enough to still have my father around because I still have to tax myself to make sure he is feted while he is here.

One of those focused looks as he arrived the church for my wedding in 2016

So, on this day in 2012, I wrote The Journalist Who Made Me Write and I followed it up with Baami! two years later. Those two pieces came from the inner recesses of my heart. Indeed for someone like my father, it had to be done that way. When I could not keep up for a few years, my brother ’Nifemi who runs www.theonenifemibabs.wordpress.com did a very fantastic piece which he titled Love Note To Dad about the same time he started his Stories From My Father series.

All these just to celebrate a man who we see as not just a father, but also as a friend. We have been able to form a bond that transcends the actual father-children relationship as is mostly seen around us here. My dad is that one you can go on to tickle and yab, and it would all end in laughter. Although you must be ready to receive as much, if not more than you have given.

His combination with his late elder brother, Pastor Adewole Babalola was something much better than you can get at any comedy show. They both had a way of first ‘catching cruise’ with one another before teaming up to have a go at any other person who was laughing while they were making jest of one another. God rest my Big Daddy’s soul.

As a fresh graduate of The Polytechnic Ibadan

Today, my darling father clocks 70! It is indeed a thing of joy and unlimited happiness to see this day that I had to more or less put many things on hold for him (just because I can anyway). Olusakin deserves every bit of love he would be getting today.

I have seen him epitomise selflessness many times. He has this calm mien that gradually morphs into a ferocious form when you are not doing that which is expected of you. If it is about being time-conscious, you don’t want to be on his wrong side.

Many people see a reserved person. Some many others are chanced to see the other side. Being a news man, my Dad can switch on and off at will. A lover of his work, Baba 70 no dey use hin work play with anyone. He is diligent and extraordinarily committed to his journalism. I remember with not much fondness when Sketch Press Limited had to close down and we were at the receiving end of this, Dad still found a way to practise even when it did not look like bills would be paid.

All smiles!

I inherited the love for writing from my Dad because he exposed me to reading as early as primary three. I am glad to say that I have become someone whose writings he can trust. I trained as an Animal Scientist when in the real sense of the word, Dad thought I would go into the Humanities because of my natural abilities.

That I make money off writing and editing today should be ascribed to Olusakin Babalola, my friend and father.

It is easy for me to introduce myself as Sakin Babalola’s son anywhere because he has left a mark wherever he has been.

And as we launch into another Sphere from today, this is another note to say we love and celebrate you, and I could keep on writing about you till I get to a hundred pages, if not more.

I love you Dad. We love you; and we celebrate your life as you officially become recognised as a senior citizen. I am waiting for Nifemi to come up with another post in his Stories From My Father series because I am sure we will get you to say something today.

Emi gigun ati Alafia Baami. For you I say, Life Begins At 70, and you will live many more years of impact by the grace of The Almighty. We will give you roses while you yet live, and this is just one.

MONTH 60

By this time on this day in 2016, I had penned As I Take My Vows. Sixty months have since passed. Its been quite a beautiful journey sprinkled with the right dose of everything which has helped us to grow our roots.

The Bukola and Seye story is one that has its uniqueness, just like you and yours. It was a classic case of the missing thing that one went looking for in Sokoto being in one’s sokoto. If it does not happen that way, how will one learn?

I woke up this anniversary morning remembering High School Musical and the lyrics of that song ‘What I’ve Been Looking For’ because the wife I spent years looking for “was always there beside me”. I however feel blessed that the divine compass led me back to her.

From far away, we both knew one another but neither wanted to make the first move coupled with the fact that there were other folks around us. However, just like anything that is divinely arranged, the compass pointed us toward one another and here we are, five years later.

one photo shoot day like that

I will appreciate the missus for being tolerant of my excesses because I can be quite a handful on some days. Again I am appreciative to her for reining me in whenever I wanna get on a roll in a not so good way. With her I have found the balance and I feel blessed.

wink wink

Its been a five year journey filled with many challenges that I do not know if another person would have been suited to face with me. This babe that I married has rowed furiously with me when I have had to move against the tide and while we have defeated many, I feel confident with her on my side that I can take on the world.

So once again today Olubukola, Happy anniversary to us. This right here is not just for you, it is also a way of putting down something on memorable days as is customary for me. Afterall, I know where, when and how to tell you the sweetest things.

Here’s to many more fulfilling years and better days ahead. We will keep taking on the world, and we will keep winning.

I love you today and till the end comes.

An evening out with the girlfriend